Sunday, September 21, 2008
Thought For Days
To feel renewed give yourself a spiritual holiday. You don't have to go anywhere except inside yourself.
Smile and Say "Hello"
In life you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say "hello".
Return of Your Energy
If you speak badly of others, the negative energy that you put out into the universe, will return to you. The same is true of positive energy.
Tread Lightly
Tread lightly upon this earth, seeing, understanding but never imposing. Thoughtful, independent, be gracious in victory and defeat. Free of possessiveness, so ease of mind sweetens relationships. Like the scent of a rose the untroubled spirit imparts a lasting fragrance.
Be Awe - full
Look out on life with amazement, not shock. The variety, the diversity, the manner of every person, the beauty amidst the drudgery, the contrasts, the opportunities, the heroism in the lives of ordinary people, your gifts, your talents, your friends - even just one friend - is all awesome. Live in awe, and entertain wonder, and you will be knocking on the door of true love. Don't kill it with cynicism or criticism, don't sabotage your life with moaning and complaining. Open the eyes in your head and the eye in your intellect and choose to see the stunning, awesome, diverse beauty of life happening around you right now. Meet it with your heart and you will enrich and be enriched in one single moment.
Resent Not
There are no justified resentments. To resent someone is to fall under the illusion that they are the cause of our suffering. No one can die from a snake bite. It's the poison that kills them. You may receive the poison of another’s words, or even just in a glance, but you don’t have to absorb it or allow it free passage through the veins of your consciousness. The consequence of not absorbing the poison of others is you never experience enmity towards others. And people notice when you have absolutely no enmity. It draws them close, it empowers them, it builds trust, it enables harmony to break out! It is only because the lion has no thought of killing the lamb that the lamb feels able to come so close.
Staying Peaceful
Desires cause peace to disappear. You think that acquiring things will make you feel secure, but the reality is that the more you have the more fear there usually is of losing it, and the further you are from peace. Desires are the cause of all conflicts. When you want something and cannot get it you become frustrated. Learning to be free from desires is learning how to stay peaceful.
Radiate Light
Each one of us is a walking radiator. Mostly we radiate thoughts and attitudes. From deep within we radiate our state of being, and the essential, original and eternal state of every being is peaceful and loving. But we block and distort this energy with our attachments. Attachments turn love into fear, peace into anger and then distort our attitudes and actions towards others. This is neither relaxing for ourselves, or for those around us. Which is why detachment is the secret to living lightly and lovingly. To be a radiator that people come to for real warmth, what do you need to detach from today? If you don't detach then you will stay attached, and then you will see others and life itself as a threat, and your tension will keep them away. But they cannot threaten you. Only your dependency on a thing, or an idea, or an opinion can be threatened.
Be Content
Wherever I am is wherever I am meant to be, whatever I am doing is whatever I am meant to be doing and whatever everyone else is doing is exactly what they are meant to be doing - this is contentment. If you do want to change where you are, or what you are doing, the first thing is to be content with wherever you are and whatever you are doing right now! Paradoxically that's what attracts opportunities and invitations to be somewhere else! Why? Because you are a living magnet, and contentment is one of your most attractive qualities. And the law of attraction says that according to your dominant thoughts so you will attract the people and circumstances into your life. Being content right now attracts the best possible future.
Self Awareness
A beautiful state of being is soul-consciousness, where your whole sense of self is shifted from a physical identity to a spiritual one. In soul-consciousness, you no longer feel yourself to be male or female, black or white. No worldly achievement forms your self-esteem. Instead self-esteem is shaped by a deep, abiding experience of your intrinsic worth as a child of God. A lack of soul-consciousness puts your well-being at the mercy of your environment - you become a slave to the influences of the people and situations around you - feeling happy and good only when outside events warrant it. This kind of dependency leaves the soul weak and confused. Soul-consciousness, on the other hand, frees you from external influences, allowing you to create an inner well being which is totally independent.
Eye Of The Storm
A wise sea captain caught in a tropical storm knows that if he holds his vessel on the periphery it will get hurled from one side to the other. If he can reach the eye of the storm, he will enter a place of stillness. The storm will then subside and the ship can continue its journey. Similarly, when everything around me is changing in a very intense way, the best place for me to seek shelter and refuge is not on the outside, but deep within the self, where I can get in touch with my own inner being, find strength and stability, then come out and do whatever it is I need to.
21-Sep-08 10:47 pm
母亲一生的八个谎话
男孩长身体的时候,勤劳的母亲常用周日休息时间去县郊农村河沟里捞些鱼来给孩子们补钙。鱼很好吃,鱼汤也很鲜。孩子们吃鱼的时候,母亲就在一旁啃鱼骨头,用舌头舔鱼骨头上的肉渍。男孩心疼,就把自己碗里的鱼夹到母亲碗里,请母亲吃鱼。母亲不吃,母亲又用筷子把鱼夹回男孩的碗里。母亲说,孩子,快吃吧,我不爱吃鱼!――母亲撒的第二个谎。
上初中了,为了缴够男孩和哥姐的学费,当缝纫工的母亲就去居委会领些火柴盒拿回家来,晚上糊了挣点分分钱补点家用。有个冬天,男孩半夜醒来,看到母亲还躬着身子在油灯下糊火柴盒。男孩说,母亲,睡了吧,明早您还要上班呢。母亲笑笑,说,孩子,快睡吧,我不困!――母亲撒的第三个谎
高考那年,母亲请了假天天站在考点门口为参加高考的男孩助阵。时逢盛夏,烈日当头,固执的母亲在烈日下一站就是几个小时。考试结束的铃声响了,母亲迎上去递过一杯用罐头瓶泡好的浓茶叮嘱孩子喝了,茶亦浓,情更浓。望着母亲干裂的嘴唇和满头的汗珠,男孩将手中的罐头瓶反递过去请母亲喝。母亲说,孩子,快喝吧,我不渴!――母亲撒的第四个谎。
父亲病逝之后,母亲又当爹又当娘,靠着自己在缝纫社里那点微薄收入含辛茹苦拉扯着几个孩子,供他们念书,日子过得苦不堪言。胡同路口电线杆下修表的李叔叔知道后,大事小事就找岔过来打个帮手,搬搬煤,挑挑水,送些钱粮来帮补男孩的家里。人非草木,孰能无情。左邻右舍对此看在眼里,记在心里,都劝母亲再嫁,何必苦了自己。然而母亲多年来却守身如玉,始终不嫁,别人再劝,母亲也断然不听,母亲说,我不爱!――母亲撒的第五个谎
男孩和她的哥姐大学毕业参加工作后,下了岗的母亲就在附近农贸市场摆了个小摊维持生活。身在外地工作的孩子们知道后就常常寄钱回来补贴母亲,母亲坚决不要,并将钱退了回去。母亲说,我有钱!――母亲撒的第六个谎
男孩留校任教两年,后又考取了美国一所名牌大学的博士生,毕业后留在美国一家科研机构工作,待遇相当丰厚,条件好了,身在异国的男孩想把母亲接来享享清福却被老人回绝了。母亲说,我不习惯!――母亲撒的第七个谎 晚年,母亲患了胃癌,住进了医院,远在大西洋彼岸的男孩乘飞机赶回来时,术后的母亲已是奄奄一息了。母亲老了,望着被病魔折磨得死去活来的母亲,男孩悲痛欲绝,潸然泪下。母亲却说,孩子,别哭,我不疼。――母亲撒的第八个谎 不论你多富有,不管你官多大,到什么时候也离不开咱的妈....愿天下父母平安度春秋........ 珍惜母亲的每一个谎言,好好的对待父母,很多东西,失去后才得来的珍贵代价太大.所以一定要好好的爱我们的父母~
21-Sep-08 2:00pm
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Sexy School Girls Have All the Fun
With fashion week behind us, its time to look forward to our favorite holiday of the year, Halloween, of course.
Yes, it's that opportunity to create that hot, sexy look that you crave, but feared was too hot and sexy for any ordinary day.
It's that time of the year when you can be as wild as you want to be, and still enjoy the thrill of being the center of attention.
Yes, it's time to unleash your wild side and create your perfect sexy look.
One of the hottest fantasy looks, whether for Halloween or other time, is that sexy yet sweet school girl look.
Whether you want to rekindle your hot times at school or just want to play the part of daddy little girl, the school girl look is definitely a hot and sexy look.
No wonder, those short, sexy pleated school girl skirts always captures the guys' attention.
Add a pair of electrifying, sexy, white thigh high stockings to add a dash of pizzazz to the outfit.
You know the guys just flip over stocks and stockings, especially those thigh high stocks with sexy little bows at the top.
If you want to create that naughty little girl look, just add a pair of black silk thigh high stockings or black nylon stockings and a garter belt, to really turn on your guy(s).
Black, pattern leather shoes are always a good choice to wear, especially a very shiny pair that reflects upwards, you know.
Or just add a pair of white, pink or black knee high boots to create a hot, sexy combo the school girl - cheerleader look.
You will look hot and sexy on or off the playing field.
Undoubtedly, those bare midriff, cut off front tie tops are really hot and complement and enhance your cleavage.
Plus if you love to wear belly jewelry, this is the perfect way to let your jewelry shine or glimmer in the spotlight.
Positively, you will look smashing in a tied top, and I am sure your guy will enjoy helping you tie or untie the front bow.
Of course, being popular means you don't always have the time to shop for the look.
So we have included some fab, school girl looks for you.
If you really like to display your cleavage to the max, than this sexy white tied see through top is for you.
Wear it with a strapless bra, shelf bra or just go au naturel.
The sexy pleated mini skirt completes this school girl outfit.
If you love to have a fling, than this Scottish school girl costume is just the thing.
It includes an off the shoulder dress with a inlaid corset, just great for displaying your figure and enhancing your cleavage, with attached plaid pleated skirt. The costume also includes a matching hat, belt with purse attached and two leg garters.
All in all, very sexy outfits for doing the highland fling or for a Halloween fling.
If you are feeling a bit naughty, this Darque School Girl outfit is just for you.
This sexy, school girl outfit includes a pleated Lycra skirt in traditional schoolgirl plaid fabric as well as a short sleeved Lycra jacket.
Also included are removable garters, neck tie and, of course, some naughty and sexy black stockings.
So, if you are feeling a bit naughty, this is the outfit for you.
Still can't decide, well just check out this selection of sexy hot school girl outfits.
You can also send this article to your guy and have him pick out an outfit for you.
Megan Fox Likes Boys and Girls too
Megan Fox confesses to liking boys and girls in an explosive new interview.
Find out who turns Megan on in this video clip.
If you cannot see the video or photos in your E-mail or news reader, just go to Sexy School Girls.